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The Beginning Of The End

Friendships don’t always last especially when one physically attacks the other. Tenant Dean K. and I were friends almost from the time he moved in the building. We’ve had many personal conversations and hung out as buddies, I've gotten to know the guy I’m aware he has a mental disability.  On Friday afternoon something happened that was totally out of character.  He came up to me while I was talking to a female tenant and in a fit of rage he elbowed me on the chest. My first reaction was to punch him back then I realized he’s a victim of a car accident, suffers brain damage and for medical reasons has a metal plate to protect his head. I was angry and demanded an explanation he responded by shouting obscenities. There was no reasoning with the guy.  
After thinking about it I decided to call the police.  Most of the altercation was caught on camera. From experience I found out sending a complaint letter to the KMHC office about another tenant doesn’t guarantee results so it was best the police look into it.  My objective was not to get Dean charged with assault, but to warn him not to talk or ever touch me again. I gave the police and KMHC a copy of my incident letter.  I realize tenants don’t always get along but when it gets physical that’s a whole new ballgame. 
I hope KMHC office have a talk to Dean about his bad behavior perhaps seek counseling and how to address his anger issues. He’s been ranting about other tenants for some time.

Until next time…be safe 

tk

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Tony King said…
Today HPC officer/badge # 1237 who investigated the incident dropped by my unit to give me an update. Unfortunately the cameras did not record the incident due to the angle of the lens. She did tell me Deano admitted to the assault. In his defence he claims I hit him on the back at the library. Oddly the last time I saw him at the library was about a month ago I approached him, patted him on the shoulder and said “How’s it going buddy!” Anyway we made a verbal agreement not to communicate with each other. Now I don’t have to listen to him whine the next time he gets robbed by feeling up street hookers.

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